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Santa Barbara Backyard Garden Wedding

Santa Barbara is home to some of the prettiest weddings on the planet, so it’s no wonder these two college sweethearts chose it as the setting for their summertime “I do.” They set out to create an intimate garden party with carefully placed pops of color, and brought on vendors like Jenna BlazevichSeasons CateringCody Floral Design plus many more to bring it all to life. More wedding eye candy from Lane Dittoe sitting in the gallery right here.

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From The Bride…Lucas and I were best friends before we were anything else, which is how any great romance should start! We met at Williams College in the Berkshires and moved to Los Angeles together after graduation, and then Chicago. He proposed in our living room in downtown Chicago by playing a video he had recorded for me set to Michael Buble’s “Everything,” with his entire proposal written out over 30 cue cards that he flipped through as I struggled to read through my tears! The final card said “turn around” and when I did, he was next to the couch on one knee with a gorgeous custom family heirloom ring.

Lucas’ parents moved to Santa Barbara six years ago and it has become a magical getaway spot for us. Whenever we visit, we eat some of the best food and drink some of the best wine we’ve ever tasted while enjoying the gorgeous sunshine. When we got engaged in January 2014, we knew right away we wanted to create the same experience for our wedding and our guests. We set our wedding date for July 2014, just six months later! Since we were planning from afar in Chicago, his parents became invaluable in having initial meetings with local Santa Barbara vendors so that we and my parents in New Hampshire could narrow our list. We had so much fun traveling to Santa Barbara to taste Seasons’ amazing food, see our vision for colorful and romantic peonies, dahlias, and garden roses brought to life by Laura from Cody Floral Design, meet our INCREDIBLY hard-working coordinators, Nitana and Tonya from Soigne Productions, and pick out chairs, china, and everything else at Classic Party Rentals. I had seen Lane Dittoe’s work featured on Style Me Pretty many times and have always loved his soft, pretty, timeless style. I was elated we were able to work with him on the day and he really captured the unfiltered joy and love we felt!

Lucas and I wanted our wedding to be an intimate garden party where we could spend significant time with everyone in attendance, and we didn’t want something that anyone else had done. That kept our guest count to 96 and our venue, which was the first decision we made, set the tone for the whole day. Family friends generously offered to let us have the wedding at their home in Montecito, which gave us complete control over everything we brought into the space and meant our end result was 100% one-of-a-kind. We loved how many different spaces we had to work with, from the giant oak tree we hung with dripping twinkle lights for our ceremony to the secret hedged-in flower garden where we served cocktails. Our vision was described by our vendors as casual elegance, which I thought was an oxymoron but is really so fitting!

Rather than pick a specific theme, we let the beautiful gardens and the natural colors of Santa Barbara be our guide, choosing a color palette of creamy blush, pops of coral, champagne, apricot, papaya and sage green. We also tied in rose gold in the decor and in my jewelry and shoes for sparkle. My dress was from Jenny Yoo in Chicago and was the second one I ever tried on; it was the only one that made my maid of honor Caroline tear up. Caroline and I also bought the same exact rose gold Seychelles sandals to wear without the other knowing it, so we knew we were on the same page! I wrapped a penny my mom gave me from the 1800s that her grandmother had given her around the stem of my bouquet as my “something old.” My mother-in-law gave me her beautiful family heirloom diamond bracelet to wear as my “something borrowed.” Lucas wore his beloved late grandfather’s watch.

Once we settled on the floral Rifle Paper Co. paper used in many of the DIY projects, that helped us tie everything together. My DIY projects included my magnum opus, the escort card display, which I handmade by cutting out all the table numbers from our floral theme paper with an x-acto knife and adhering them to kraft paper tags. I did the calligraphy on the decor, while our envelopes were done by the talented Jenna Blazevich out of Chicago. I also made our reserved signs and other signage, lined all our envelopes with the floral motif paper using Paper Source’s envelope liner kit (highly recommend!), hand-stamped our “wish cards,” which we used in lieu of a guestbook, and made our decopauged M & L letters. Our favors were chocolates with a custom wrapper handmade by Twenty-Four Blackbirds Chocolate in Santa Barbara. We also tried not to choose decor just because we thought it was pretty, but rather select items with special meaning, which was reflected in pieces like the vintage test tube rack that displayed single garden roses on our sign-in table—a nod to Lucas’ medical career.

We wrote our entire ceremony ourselves, including readings that reflected my background as an English Literature major and book editor and a song that Lucas’ college a cappella group would sing at every concert. Our officiant, Andrew, is a mutual best friend and brought the crowd to tears with his funny, heartfelt, wonderfully-delivered ceremony. Seeing Lucas smile at me through his tears while speaking the words we had written together filled my heart to the brim. The other moment that will always make my heart swell was the surprise my groom had planned for me at the reception. An incredible singer, Lucas arranged with our amazing DJ, Tony of RedShoe LA, to serenade me at the wedding with “Everything,” a nod to his proposal. I wasn’t the only one crying! One of our irrational fears leading up to the reception was that no one would dance; Tony’s playlist was so amazing that people jumped up to dance before they had finished their dinner!

I think one of the best decisions we made was electing to have an incredibly small wedding party. My best friend Caroline was my maid of honor, and Lucas’ cousin Tai was his best man, while Tai’s children, Ethan and Leyla, were our ringbearer and flower girl. It made the day so intimate and eliminated so much stress from the planning process. We would definitely advise anyone going through the planning process to throw any preconceived notions of “rules” you might have out the window and do what feels right for YOU. Also, take a few moments and eat the dinner you spent so long planning! We did! In fact, I ate our dessert – ice cream sandwiches with fresh-baked cookies – on the dance floor!

The best part of the day we never could have planned was the complete love and warmth that our friends and family members surrounded us with. We had two events leading up to the day, so it felt like everyone was old friends by the wedding and we can truly say we got to spend time with everyone who came. The family-style dinner from Seasons catering we served of fresh California produce, tri-tip, and sea bass was symbolic of the extended family we all became that night. Everyone says they wish we could all do it again annually! But even though the day is over, marriage has been the most amazing new start to our lives. We started this as best friends—which made our first dance song choice of “Lucky” by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat an easy one!—and that’s where we’ll end up, too.

Photography: Lane Dittoe | Coordination: Soigne Productions | Floral Design: Cody Floral Design | Wedding Dress: Jenny Yoo | Catering: Seasons Catering | Hair & Makeup: Mishay Salon & Spa | Calligraphy: Jenna Blazevich | Lighting: Bella Vista Designs | DJ: RedShoe | Favors: Twenty-Four Blackbirds Chocolate | Groom's Suit: J.Crew | Best Man's Suit: J.Crew | Copper Table Numbers: Etsy | Flower Girl Dress: Little Dreamers Tutus | Invitations & Paper: Paper Source | Linens: La Tavola | Maid Of Honor's Dress: J.Crew | Menus: Etsy | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Robes: Plum Pretty Sugar | Transportation: SB Airbus | Venue: Private Residence

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Gold Gilded Goddess Wedding Inspiration

I have a major weakness when it comes to two things – one being gold, and two being the beach. So when Honey Honey Photography captured the combined results of my absolute favorite things in the whole wide world, I am one radiating Bride-to-be. Filled with The English Garden blooms and one perfectly gilded Elaya Vaughn gown, this gorgeous gallery is the perfect place to be. More here!

From Honey Honey Photography… For the naturally undone bride with an air of magic and mysticism. A quiet beauty; bare footed, free, yet with an other worldly elegance. Inspired by royalty, jewel tones and an untamed overcast Malibu beach setting. A breath-taking backdrop overlooking the soft waves and rocky shores – with light peeking through stormy hued clouds. A bouquet with overgrown and wild foliage paired with deep hues to match her jewel tone lips. Her dress dipped in gold, and lace caressing her shoulders and down to her fingertips, complementing the neutral hues of sand and water. Married beautifully with Found Rentals antique velvet chair, tray and antique gold saxophone, a symphony of Edwardian charms. Sweet and delightful Bottega Louie mini cakes laced with jewel toned fruits, chocolate mouse tarts with gold foiled hazelnuts. Hair in a sophisticated and romantic up-do. Delicate gold flecked butterfly details sewn to the train following the gilded goddess inspired bride.

Photography: Honey Honey Photography | Flowers: The English Garden | Wedding Dress: Elaya Vaughn | Cakes: Bottega Louie | Hair And Makeup: Jess Wilcox | Beach: Malibu | Bridesmaid Dress: Alexandra Grecco | Model: Laura Of Q Models LA | Styling Props: Found Rentals | Stylist: Sierra Ramke Of The Babushka Ballerina

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Meet SMP Blogger Bride: Politics of Pretty!

You know her as Beauty Editor over at the Glitter Guide and from her own fabulous journeys on Politics of Pretty, but today you’ll get to know Kara Manos our newest Blogger Bride, sharing all her wedding planning adventures here on SMP. Prepped and polished, she’ll spill every step of her journey down the aisle, and what better way to get things started than with a sweet introduction below!

From Kara… Hi SMPers! I’m thrilled to be sharing my wedding journey with Style Me Pretty as your newest blogger bride. You may know me from my beauty blog, Politics of Pretty or perhaps from my work at Glitter Guide as a Beauty Editor, but here I’m chatting from one real bride to another.

The story on how I met my fiancé, Curt is an interesting one to say the least. You see, timing is everything. We met in college through mutual friends, but it wasn’t exactly love at first sight. According to Curt, I gave him zero attention. Because we ran in the same circle we saw one another every so often and exchanged a few messages here and there via social media. It wasn’t until almost three years later when I was out with a group of friends that Curt and I ran into one another and reconnected at a bar. Two days afterwards he called me and we went on our first date, and the rest is history! To this day when we tell people our story and how we met, he always says, “patience is key.”

Curt proposed on our two year anniversary. He managed to completely trick me in to thinking we were going out to dinner to celebrate. I got all dolled up ready to go out, but before leaving the house he asked me to watch a project he’d been working on (he’s a videographer) and wanted to film my reaction. In the first half of the video he had compiled footage of my friends and family wishing us a happy anniversary, but midway through he was asking my mom and dad for their blessing to propose. Of course, the biggest surprise came after I’d finished watching the video! We’ve been engaged for almost a year and while wedding planning hasn’t exactly been diamonds and rosé – it’s certainly an experience I’ll never forget. SEE THE PROPOSAL VIDEO HERE!

I’m so excited to share this journey with you fellow brides, and from makeup trends to health and fitness, I’ll be covering my planning process and how beauty is such an important part of the wedding day. Until next time!

xoxo, Kara

Photography: Kate Ann Photography | Eyeliner: Stila Cosmetics | Mink Lashes: Esqido | Nail Polish : Deborah Lippmann | Venue: Private Residence

Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried’s Bachelorette Wedding

We all watched with baited breath as Desiree gave the final rose to Chris on season 9 of The Bachelorette. And today that TV-turned-real-life fairytale is coming full circle with a wedding that’s the stuff bridal dreams are made of. Chock-full of beautiful design moments by Sinclair & Moore and a custom-designed gown from Maggie Sottero, it’s a California winter wedding done oh-so-right, and all captured by Brandon Kidd and Perryfield Films. Pssst: scroll below for a Q&A with Des + your chance to win your own Desiree Hartsock with Maggie Sottero creation!

SMP: CONGRATS ON YOUR WEDDING! TELL US ABOUT YOUR INSPIRATION BEHIND THE DAY.

DH: Thanks! We really wanted to make sure that our wedding day represented our personalities and would be a comfortable setting for all of our guests. Chris and I have similar taste so that made it easy to plan and decide on the details. The inspiration really stemmed from vintage details and natural elements. We wanted the wedding to be romantic and fun!

SMP: ANY WEDDING TRENDS YOU INCLUDED IN THE DESIGN?

DH: I would say that the style of bouquets and flowers that we chose are becoming a lot more popular with leafy greens and different textures, but overall we didn’t focus on the trends and went with what we liked the most to make sure that our day felt like us. Of the dresses??? Having worked with gowns for many years I knew that I wanted to create something unique and different from what I have seen but still with vintage elements. I just followed my heart in what I knew I would love to wear as a bride.

SMP: LOVE THE POP OF COLOR YOUR DONNA MORGAN BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES BROUGHT IN! HOW DID YOU SETTLE ON A PALETTE?

DH: Well, I actually went back and forth on the colors because I do love soft blushes and neutrals that are popular, but when it came down to the overall look of our wedding, a pop of color is more of our style. I liked the color of the bridesmaid dresses and so my florist and designer, Steve Moore, based everything else off of that. It really brought all of the details together.

SMP: AS A BRIDAL STYLIST AND DESIGNER, WHAT WAS IT LIKE DESIGNING YOUR OWN GOWN WITH MAGGIE SOTTERO?

DH: It was truly a dream come true to be able to work with such a wonderful company to bring my designs and ideas to life. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience and am excited to now be able to share my designs with new brides! I hope you all love them as much as I do. :)

SMP: ANY DETAILS THAT MADE YOUR WEDDING OH-SO-YOU + CHRIS? ANY NODS TO THE BACHELORETTE?

DH: I feel that everything about the wedding was very us. From the fun dance party at the reception to the natural atmosphere of the chapel; the entire day was relaxed, romantic and everything we could have hoped for. The show definitely got a few nods in the best man and maid of honor speeches. There were some good laughs from a poem the best man wrote about the show.

SMP: ABSOLUTE FAVORITE MOMENT OF THE DAY?

DH: My favorite moment was definitely when I walked down the aisle and saw Chris for the first time that day. There’s so much joy and emotion in that moment that it’s hard to compare to anything else. Very special. :)

SMP: NOW THAT YOU AND CHRIS TIED THE KNOT, DOES IT FEEL LIKE YOUR EXPERIENCE AS THE BACHELORETTE HAS OFFICIALLY COME FULL CIRCLE?

DH: Oh yes! It seems like so long ago since Chris and I met on The Bachelorette but will forever be a part of our story that we are so grateful for. The circle is complete and now it’s on to the next chapter of our lives as a married couple!

SMP: ANY ADVICE FOR FELLOW BRIDES?

DH: The best advice I can give is to not stress the small stuff…especially on your wedding day. Things don’t always go as smooth as you think they will but it always ends up being ok, and when you look back it will be the vows that meant the most, not the wrong shade of flowers or a late officiant. Also, try to take in every moment of your special day. It will go by fast and you’ll want to remember the 5 minutes alone with your new hubby or seeing the reception set up before guests get there. It’s your special day so enjoy every second!

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Winter
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Romantic

Photography: Brandon Kidd Photography | Cinematography: Perryfield Films | Wedding Design + Floral Design: Sinclair & Moore Events | Event Planning + Coordination: Chic Celebrations | Production: Be Inspired PR | Wedding Dress: Desiree Hartsock with Maggie Sottero | Invitations: Minted | Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Donna Morgan | Catering:Redondo Beach Historic Library | Hair Stylist: Gold Comb Salon | Calligraphy: La Happy Design | Bride’s Jewelry: Desiree for KV BIjou | Bride’s Makeup Artist: Elyse Reneau | Bridesmaids’ Jewelry:Desiree for KV BIjou | Bridesmaids’ Makeup Artist: Allie Bengtsson | Coffee Bar: ONEHOPE Coffee | Desserts: Sweet and Saucy | Getting Ready Robe: Show me Your MuMu | Linens: La Tavola | Vintage Rentals: Found Rentals | Wedding Venue: Redondo Beach Historic Library | Wine + Champagne : ONEHOPE Wine

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The Prize: A wedding dress from the Desiree Hartsock with Maggie Sottero collection.

How to Enter: Follow @maggiesottero on Instagram, then post your favorite Desiree Hartsock with Maggie Sottero dress on Instagram using #deswithmaggiesotterogiveaway

Terms & Conditions: Can be found right here.

End date: Monday, March 16th @ 5:00 PM MT

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